Interview with S.C. Stephens ~ Author of the THOUGHTLESS Series

Author S.C. Stephens at a Seattle book signing in December 2012.
In October 30, 2012, we celebrated S.C. Stephens’ Day and without a doubt had to celebrate it again today, the official release day of Reckless, the third and final book in the Thoughtless trilogy. Since I personally am not a fan of character interviews, I was thrilled when S.C. graciously gave us another personal interview, especially when I know how busy she has been. Yes, I love talking to the mastermind and boss of Kellan Kyle. (You can read our previous interview here.)
How did you come up with the three titles Thoughtless, Effortless, and Reckless?
Thoughtless came up because Kiera kept doing things without thinking. It fit her character. Effortless was in my mind after hearing it in a song (I’m losing you and it’s effortless). I decided to use it as the title after Kiera mentioned that loving him was effortless. Reckless was the hardest of the three to name. I had a list of dozens of “less” titles. It was the one that was the most unique, but still fit the story.
If you could describe the Thoughtless series in three words, what would they be?
Accepting true love
What have you been were you working on from the time Reckless was returned to the publisher with final edits completed until now?
I’ve been working on the second book in the Conversion: The Next Generation series. I’m almost finished with the rough draft. Then I’ll be rereading the two books and making sure they are consistent. After that I’ll be starting a new book while working on the final edits for the original Conversion series which I’ll be publishing in the fall.
Who or what inspired Kellan’s character?
Kellan was inspired by music. He was my generic fantasy guy who I pictured as the singer of whatever band I was listening to. His character grew and evolved as the story progressed, and now he’s so much more than just a fantasy guy to me.
Were there any earlier written versions of Kellan that fans don’t know about?
No, Thoughtless was Kellan’s very first appearance.
What do you do when you are not writing?
Answer emails, PMs, Tweets, Facebook comments, Authorgraph requests, and plan upcoming signings…that’s almost a full-time job, lol. When I’m completely out of the writing zone, I hang out with my children, spend time with my friends, and try to find a little time to read books by other people.
One of our favorite reads this year has been Beautiful Bastard. How did your quote make it on the front of the cover? Did you write fan fiction with the authors? Any thoughts of ever co-authoring book with anyone?
I was a HUGE fan of The Office when it was on Fanfiction.net. Huge! I was obsessed with that story, and I was so bummed when they pulled it. When I found out that my publisher was going to be publishing it, I immediately contacted my editor and let her know how happy I was and how much I loved the story. She emailed me back and asked if I would be interested in providing a quote for the book. I was thrilled to do it! Giddy, even.
I’ve tossed around the idea of co-authoring a book with someone before, but I honestly have no idea how people do it.
Knowing Reckless is the most anticipated sequel of 2013, emotionally, how did it feel when you completely finished writing this book? As a writer, do you go through a grieving period?
Haha, I don’t think it’s the most anticipated sequel of the year, but there are a fair amount of people waiting for it. Honestly, I’ve been an excited/nervous wreck since finishing the book. This is the first one I’ve published without sharing it with hundreds of people first, so it’s a new experience for me. There is also a lot of expectation around the book, so I’m hoping fans are pleased.
Oddly enough, I didn’t experience any sort of grieving period once it was over. Probably because I had a deadline to make. I think I’ll feel that later, once it’s been published and the fans have read it.
Now that Reckless has been released, what is next on the horizon for S.C. Stephens?
I’m going to be publishing the Conversion series later in the year, then early next year I’ll be releasing the rest of my older stories. At the same time, I’ll be writing new stories to release, so hopefully you’ll have a lot to read from me for a long time to come.
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Craziest thing in your fridge right now?
Vegemite. A fan sent me a tube of it. Seriously, what is that stuff? And how are you supposed to eat it? Lol.
If you were writing a book about your life, what would the title be?
Zzzzzzzzz. My life really isn’t that interesting, lol.
Shopping weakness?
Hmm…I’m not a big shopper. I’m too impatient. It irritates me. I do have a long list of songs and albums I want to buy though.
What was your mom’s pet name for you?
No pet name that I can remember.
Who would play you in a film of your life?
Oh boy. No, no movie, please, lol. I’d rather see Kellan’s life on film than my own.
Can you roll your tongue or tie a cherry stem into a knot with your tongue?
Haha! Yes, I can roll my tongue. No, I can’t tie a cherry stem. A friend has actually been trying to teach me how to do it. He’s an expert, but so far I’ve failed miserably.

SC Stephens at the TFEiC author meet & greet at Palmer House in Chicago September 29, 2012
Author Interview ~ Jessica Scott
Can you tell us a little bit about yourself, Jessica?
You mean other than I’m crazy? Not much to tell. Mom, wife, army officer, author, and hamster wrangler. The hamsters are the fun part, lol.
Do you have a day job as well?
Yep, full time active duty army officer.
Is anything in your book based on real life experiences or purely all imagination?
Oh it’s all a mish mash of reality and fiction, lol! But I’ll never tell which is which!
Is there a message in your novels that you want readers to walk away with? If so, what is it?
I want to give readers a glimpse of military life that’s not special forces, you know? Normal soldiers adjusting to coming home from war that isn’t always violence and PTSD. It’s more nuanced than that, you know?
What has been the toughest criticism given to you as an author? What has been the best compliment?
Well, there was this one time a reader said she didn’t believe one of the disputes in my book because a sergeant wouldn’t talk to his lieutenant that way. I laughed because it totally happens that way all the time.
Best compliment was being written to by a 30 year breast cancer survivor and having her tell me that I nailed it. That touched me in so many ways. It was truly humbling.
What sort of books do you enjoy as a reader? Are those any different from the books you enjoy as an author?
I really love a good urban fantasy or paranormal. I adore Nalini Singh’s Guild Hunter series.
What sort of Starbuck’s coffee would your characters order? Simple coffee, complicated soy-non-fat-extra-espresso-half-caffeine-nightmare?
Caramel latte, skim milk.
What was your favorite chapter (or part) to write and why?
Of this story? I have to say I love writing scenes between Carponti and Shane. Carponti just says the craziest stuff. I really get to take the filter off with him and it’s lots of fun.
Which of your characters would you like to meet in person and why?
Carponti because he’d be a riot to hang out with.
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Craziest thing in your fridge right now?
Other than moldy cucumbers? Greek yogurt.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Nope. Lust at first sight yes, but insta love? No I think it takes more than a first look.
Do you have any birthmarks? If so, where?
Nope:)
Favorite Actor?
Hugh Jackman.
Shopping weakness?
Lipgloss
What was your mom’s pet name for you?
Pumpkin.
Join us for a “live” FAN FAN CHAT with Jessica Scott on Tuesday, March 19, 2013, at 9:00 PM EST.
Getting to know the “real” J.L. Mac ~ author of Seven Years of Bad Luck
Can you tell us a little bit about yourself?
I wish there was something fun and exciting to say about myself, but I am afraid there isn’t. I am twenty-six years old. I am married to a soldier in the US Army. I have two children. I am left handed. I like purple best. I hate driving. I love Sci-Fi movies and westerns. I am competitive. I am a scorpio and I like long walks on the beach and dancing in the rain. Okay, I joke.
At what point in your life did you realize that being an author was no longer going to be just a dream but a career you were going to turn into reality?
I will let you know when I get there.
How does your writing process look?
Consistent with regular amounts of word counts daily/weekly… or more sporadic with a gush of words all at once and then a dry bed for a while? I am pretty meticulous with just about everything I do. I plan and prepare. It drives my husband insane. I write down everything and make lists for everything. My writing process is no different. For each novel I have a one-subject spiral designated for brainstorming and notes. Each spiral is filled with scribble-scratch writing that is eerily similar to that of a mad scientist. I usually write between 3k-10k words per writing day. 11,000 words in 14 hours is my best record.
Some authors listen to music while writing, others prefer a quiet space. Which is your preference? If you do listen to music, do you have a playlist? Care to share?
I listen to music. Loads of it. I am a bit of a music guru. I love many types and I play what best suits the mood of what I am writing. I listen to Miles Davis almost daily. He is and always will be one of my favorites.
What part of the writing process is the hardest for you, whether it’s first draft, rewriting, or editing?
Editing. I despise editing and I don’t mind admitting that I can be quite the lazy writer when it comes to editing as I write.
What was your favorite chapter (or part) to write and why?
The beginning. I feel like the start of a book is huge. I am introducing characters to the reader and I feel proud in that moment in the beginning of the book.
What is project is next for J.L. Mac?
Wreck Me is on deck for release. I can’t say what is after Wreck Me since I have not yet officially announced anything, but I will say that I have three other novels in the works. All three will be completed and released by the end of summer. That brings the total to five novels.
You’ve been given the task to host a last minute dinner party. Which authors are on your ultimate dinner invitation list? Alive or Dead.
Oh my. Jane Austen, J.D. Salinger, James Patterson, Jodi Ellen Malpas (I want her to count down when it is time for dinner hehe), Katie Ashley, JB McGee (if she brings her inhaler. I am bad with emergencies.), Emily Snow, Michelle Valentine, Michelle Leighton, AC Marchman, Raine Miller, there are so many. Can I just say the entire list of authors attending The Naughty Mafia Rocks Vegas event??
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Cowboy hat or cowboy boots?
Boots.
Craziest thing in your fridge right now?
Moon shine.
Do you have any birthmarks? If so, where?
I have a dime size birthmark in the shape of the recycle triangle on the side of my right knee.
What was your mom’s pet name for you?
Jaimi. No pet name.
Who would play you in a film of your life?
I really like Emma Stone.
Can you roll your tongue or tie a cherry stem into a knot with your tongue?
Sure can. In less than 30 seconds.
Author Interview: J.B. McGee
Tell us a little bit about yourself, J.B.
I have been married for 11 years to my husband, Chad. We have two special needs children, Noah (7) and Jonah (5). We all suffer from Mitochondrial Disease, so my hope is that my books will not only help our family financially, but also help raise awareness for that disease.
What do you do when you are not writing?
I enjoy spending time with my family, monogramming, graphic design, crafting, and reading.
In addition to writing, do you have a day job as well?
Not really. We have a small graphic design business, but I have pretty much had to stop taking new clients since I started writing. We are trying to sell the business, or we will close it at the new year if it hasn’t sold so I can write full time. Of course, caring for two special needs children is a full-time job too but not one that I get paid monetarily to do.
When did you first start writing, and when did you finish your first book?
I started writing my first book, Broken, on August 12, 2012. It was pretty much something I did on a whim. I decided I wanted to try it and see if I could do it. I was finished two weeks later.
How did you choose the genre you write in?
I had been told when I was in middle school that I could no longer do book reports on Nancy Drew. So I quit reading for pleasure for the most part. Once I read Fifty Shades of Grey, I fell in love with reading contemporary romance and the erotic romance genre. Writing erotica intimidated me, so I leaned more towards the contemporary romance genre.
Do you work with an outline or just write?
With Broken, I started with an outline and quickly tossed it to the side. For the most part the story came together so quickly and easily that I just wrote and wrote and wrote.
With Mending (the sequel), I really thought and thought about where I wanted the story to go. I wrote an outline, but I can tell you I have reworked it multiple times as the story has grown and evolved. The final outline is very different from my original outline. I will say though that I definitely have relied on this outline because there is so much more drama and depth to Mending.
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Interview: Jessica Park
I got to chat with one of my favorite authors, Jessica Park. *squeals*!! Here is the exclusive interview with the NY Times best-selling author of Flat-Out Love! Enjoy!
Writing
1. What’s a typical day like in the life of Jessica?
Lots of laundry and cleaning up after pets. Oh, and sometimes I write. When I’m really in the throes of a book, I’ll write for 12-14 hours a day. During those times, there is minimal showering, odd outfit choices, and frequent trips to a very understanding Starbucks.
2. Who or what inspired you to become a writer?
My mom has been writing a dog lover’s mystery series since I was about 15. She lured me into coauthoring a fun culinary mystery series with her, and we did five books in the series. After that, I branched off on my own and wrote Relatively Famous, my first YA book.
3. Do you remember the first thing you ever wrote?
In fifth grade, I wrote a very long piece on Clara Barton… and the “soilders.” That was not a big hit. That same year I did a long creative writing piece about the day that my mother and I adopted an orange kitten from a particularly dirty house. I included lots of details about how exactly the house was unfit for humans. Or pets. Also not a big hit.
4. Is there any particular author or book that influenced you in any way, either growing up or as an adult?
Two authors who I really admire are Pat Conroy and Elinor Lipman. I think both are undeniably gifted writers, each able to capture characters in really remarkable ways. Conroy, in particular, has the ability to absolutely tear a reader’s heart out, and I love that. If I can pull off a shred of what they do, I’d be happy.
5. How does your family feel about being related to a NY Times best-selling author?
They’re not particularly happy because I make them all address me as, “Princess New York Times Best-Selling Author.” It’s a mouthful, so sometimes they shorten that to a four-letter word.
6. Where do you get your ideas from? Do they come to you or are they inspired by true events?
Oh, gosh… From everywhere. Sometimes I’ll get the spark of an idea from real life, and then twist it into something fictional. Listening to music, letting my imagination run and build on a theme… Sometimes that gives me a scene that I want to write and then I build a story around that. I’m not a quick plotter, so it can take me months to really get a handle on a story idea.
7. Do you work with an outline or just write?
I used to work off of a very detailed outline, but the more I write, the less I seem to need that detail. I’m getting more confident that I can handle a scene without knowing exactly what it’ll be before I get there. It actually makes writing more fun because I’ll get to a new chapter and think, “Well, here we are. I can’t wait to see how this plays out!”
8. Do you ever experience writer’s block? If so, how do you get out of the funk?
I get bouts of writer’s block in terms of coming up with book ideas. I really envy authors who are just overflowing with tons of stories that they want to write. I’m getting fussier and fussier about what is worth my time to write. Music helps a lot to combat that, and finding the “right” new song can pull me out of a stupor. Falling asleep is a great time to come up with book ideas, although the danger is that you fall asleep and forget them. I have emailed myself from my phone before with late-night notes.
9. What part of the writing process is the hardest for you, whether it’s first draft, rewriting or editing?
The plotting. I love this part in some ways because I enjoy puzzles, tying everything together. But it’s a tricky, tricky process and can be very frustrating. My real struggle is coming up with the concept that I want to focus on in a book. Once I have that down, so much else falls into place.
10. Do you listen to music while writing? If so, what do you listen to? (btw just downloaded “Shallow Cars” cue the awwws! SOOO good)
Constantly. I don’t think I could write without music, which is funny because I used to need total silence. These days I’m so dependent on setting a mood to really capture what’s going on with characters that silence would be tough. I have a Spotify list for my latest book: For new work-in-progress At some point I’ll break it down to match up chapters and songs. “Litost” by The Ambassadors was on repeat for hours one day as I wrote a particularly emotional chapter. Ditto for “The Chain” by Ingrid Michaelson. In Like Lions is a local Boston band who I totally adore, and they were kind enough to let me use their music for the enhanced edition app version of Flat-Out Love. Seriously, they are addictive. Troy Ramey is the lead singer, and his voice will knock you to your knees. He could sing the damn phonebook and I’d swoon.
FOL
11. What inspired Flat-Out Love?
The original storyline was a play on Snow White (you might see some remnants of that still!), but my plot got crazy complicated and I bagged it. I’d also seen this bananas blog some couple had done that featured a video of the two of them with a Flat Rick Springfield, carting him to stores, having him stand behind their lawn mower, hanging out of the car window… It was very odd. Funny, but also not totally funny because there was a creepy, sad element there that fascinated me. I started obsessing about WHY someone would have a Flat Somebody. What if it was a family member?
12. Did you have a “glamorous college life” like Julie hoped for? What was your experience like?
Um, glamorous? Beer-soaked? Yes. Kidding, kidding… I loved college. Really loved it. I went to a small liberal arts college in Minnesota, and despite the disgusting weather, I had a blast. I’m still close with a bunch of people from college.
13. Are you still planning on releasing chapters from Matt’s POV? *SQUEALS*
I hope so… I’d love to do this! I’ll have to see if it makes sense to do this now or to write another book first.
14. Are you an adrenaline junkie like Matty? If so, what’s the craziest thing you’ve done?
Oh, hell, no! Years ago I had a brief spell where I thought it’d be a barrel of monkeys to go jumping out of a plane, but that insanity did not last long. I hate heights. I hate danger. I hate fear.
15. Do you like to travel like Finn?
Where would you most like to visit?
I’m such a homebody in so many ways! I’m not nearly as adventurous as Finn, but I’d love to go to England and Ireland one day. Or a tropical island. With a resort. And cocktails. And no work.
16. What was your favorite chapter (or part) to write and why? Hardest?
I had so much fun writing the chapter when Julie puts hinges on Finn while Celeste stands by. I can still hear Celeste yelling, “Flat Finn is having second thoughts! Flat Finn is having second thoughts!” It’s a special chapter because although it’s very funny, it’s also pretty poignant. That day was a big deal for Celeste. The hardest was probably the night of Celeste’s sleepover. I loved writing it, but there is so much intensity there and a whole array of emotions to cover. I had to manage the shift from one to the other in a way that felt natural. Lots of late nights of tweaking went into those scenes.
17. Which of your characters would you like to meet in person and why?
Flat Finn. I think he’s particularly charismatic and charming.
18. What would you say to that person?
“How YOU doin’?”
*wink wink*
19. You’ve been working with DigiGlyph to release a very fun, unique app for Flat-Out Love. Congrats! Like a movie on the go; it’s a very modern way of storytelling. What made you want to create it? How did that come about?
DigiGlyph approached me with the concept, and I was floored. Nothing like it has been done before, so we are really breaking new ground. While I don’t like bungee jumping, I do like taking other kinds of risks. I love the whole idea that storytelling can be multi-dimensional… reading the way we are used to is wonderful, obviously, but the idea that readers can experience a book in an entirely different way? I couldn’t say no to that. The book essentially “plays” with scrolling text (you can control the speed) while beautiful images, music, and sound effects fade in and out for different scenes. There is so much stuff packed into this app, and that’s why it’s been taking so long to get it out. The team is frankly too smart, and the app is actually more advanced than the devices are (iPad, Kindle, etc.), so they are having to write code that tricks the iPad into understanding the app. It’s bananas.
20. What project are you working on now?
I just finished writing a monster of a book that will be published by the YA/NA division of Amazon Children’s Publishing on May 21st. (I don’t think I’m allowed to reveal the title yet!) It’s a whopper love story set during my characters’ senior year of college. It’s very intense, very graphic in parts, and hopefully very moving. It’s a big step up from Flat-Out Love, but I’m hoping that my readers stick with me!
21. What has been the toughest criticism you’ve been given as an author?
I got really beat up over the two days that Amazon had a feature story about me on their gateway page last spring. It was such an honor for them to do that for me, but the downside was that I had a stream of reviews post based solely on the Kindle preview. I got absolutely torn apart by people who really had no business rating a book like FOL, but I’ve still got reviews up there saying, “Well, no wonder she didn’t get a publishing deal. She can’t write.” I had line-by-line criticism of the first chapter… Oh, on and on. It was brutal, and I cried more than once. I’m pretty tough, but some of those reviews were pretty awful.
22. What has been the best compliment?
A number of people have written me and shared their own stories about their family history and loss, and to hear they felt I handled the issues in FOL well and with respect meant the world. It’s really one of the reasons that I write; to connect with readers, to touch them and move them deeply. Hearing that I’ve accomplished that, and sometimes helped people to heal, means the world.
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- New Year’s resolution
Write another book. Prove those nasty reviewers mentioned above wrong. - Bagels or Lox?
Lotsa lox! With capers. - Pet name for you as a kid?
Birdie. - Favorite sandwich?
BLT with fried egg and extra mayonnaise. - Flat Adam Levine or 1 online chat date with Adam Levine?
FLAT ADAM! I don’t care for his chit chat. - Craziest thing in your fridge right now?
Leftover risotto with three kinds of mushrooms, cream cheese, caramelized onions, tomato, basil, and scallions. Made myself. Yes, I did. For real! - If you were a superhero what would your power be?
The power to get a good night’s sleep on a regular basis. Or the power to clean the house in a matter of minutes. I know, these are scintillating, right? But, man, what I’d give… Oh, and to go a more traditional route, I’d like to be able to fly at top speed. I have friends around the country who I’d love to see more often, and a number of close author pals who I haven’t even met yet! Tracey Garvis-Graves, I’m coming for ya’! Then Colleen Hoover! Then Tammara Webber! Then…. Well, flying would be awesome.
I’VE DECIDED TO DO A GIVEAWAY!! Because it’s Christmas and it’s Day 3 of #ChristmasReads week, one of you lucky subscribers will win an e-book copy of Flat-Out Love!! But there’s a catch, it ENDS MIDNIGHT!! Happy Holidays!
Spotlight: author and poet Kat Bastion
1. What inspired you to write poetry, and publish your work.
First, thank you, for the opportunity to interview with Literati Literature Lovers, Karen, and for sharing in the cover reveal of Utterly Loved. Actually, Sylvain Reynard’s guest post on Literati Literature Lovers in early September 2012, inspired me to write poetry. He shared Robert Frost’s Fire and Ice. Until that moment, I’d never been impacted by poetry. Somehow, a switch got flipped. Lost in a blissful moment days later, Heaven…Found, my first poem ever, flowed unexpectedly into my mind. Now, the switch appears to be stuck in the “on” position. {laughs}
I’m publishing a romantic poetry collection, Utterly Loved, for the sole purpose of sharing love with the world for charity. I want to help those who desperately need love to feel…Utterly Loved.
2. What makes (poetry) so special? Who is your favorite dead poet and living poet.
For me, poetry flows from the heart and mind in one colorful ribbon, perfectly capturing a moment. For all the facets that a tiny poetic snapshot reveals, the beauty experienced while writing and reading poetry is magnificent.
Robert Frost and Maya Angelou.
3. What do you do when you are not writing?
I work in an unglamorous paper-pushing job. {whispers} I change in a phone
booth when my characters desperately need me.
For fun, I spend time with Mr. Bastion every chance I get. When I’m on an actual writing break, I love to read.
4. What books did you read when you were a kid? Any books you found inspiring?
I picked up Piers Anthony’s Split Infinity in the library because it had a unicorn on the cover. I was in junior high. His fantasy worlds ensnared so completely, I quickly devoured everything he’d written. In high school it was romance novels by Danielle Steele.
No books I’ve ever read inspired me on a visceral level until I read Sylvain Reynard’s Gabriel’s Inferno and Gabriel’s Rapture. I read them for the first time at the end of September 2012, and both the books and author instantly became favorites for the underlying themes both the books and author promote: Hope, redemption, and the amazing transformation of the soul through selfless acts of love. The poetry and purpose of Utterly Loved shares those same themes.
5. What books do you read now?
I’m reading Karen Marie Moning’s ICED, and I loved her Fever Series. I’m a paranormal romance fan at heart with a particular weakness for Highlanders… and now a particular Professor.
6. Some authors listen to music while writing, others prefer a quiet space. Which is your preference? If you do listen to music, do you have a playlist? Care to share?
I need a quiet space to relax and write.
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The Wild Ones Blog Tour: Character Interview & Giveaway
“Pick ‘treat.’ Please, for the love of God, pick ‘treat’.”
We have the pleasure of having an interview with the sexy Trick Henley from The Wild Ones
Q. Favorite movie/actor/actress?
Favorite movie? Bullet with Steve McQueen, for obvious reasons.
Favorite actor? Sam Elliott. I love that guy’s voice.
Favorite actress? At the moment, it’s Jennifer Lawrence. That girl’s got some skills!
Q. Favorite song/singer?
Favorite song would probably be Cat Scratch Fever. It’s what I used to learn to play the guitar.
Favorite singer would probably be Chris Daughtry. There again, I love that guy’s voice.
Q. Favorite place you would love to visit?
Hawaii. Cami was made to wear a grass skirt and a coconut bra.
Q. One item you cannot live without?
Item? My razor. I’m not a beard kind of guy. But if you’re talking anything, including a person, it’d be Cami. Without a doubt.
Q. Who would you like to meet? (dead or alive)
My father. I’ve already met him but there’s so much I’d like to say, so much I’d like to ask. So much I want him to see and know now.
Q. Favorite hobby?
Working on a resto with Rusty probably. I can’t really count working with the horses now, since that’s more business nowadays.
Q. Guilty pleasure?
Patron tequila. Damn, how I love that Patron!
Q. Favorite author and/book?
*laughs* Uh, I don’t really read much. The last book I read was a text book in veterinary school.
Q. Do you collect anything?
Not really, unless you include horses.
Q. Favorite color?
Blue. Definitely blue.
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Interview: Sophie Morgan
Jessica and I had the opportunity to interview Sophie Morgan, author of Diary of a Submissive. We hope you enjoy getting to know Sophie a little better.
1. Some people insist you are not a woman, but a man due to the lack of emotional language used. They say a woman wouldn’t use words such as “slit” or “arse.” They also say that women are great at using emotion in writing and while you do an excellent job in the descriptive category you don’t do so well in the emotional department. What’s your reaction and what would you say they to them?
It’s a question that has come up a couple of times and surprises and depresses me in pretty much equal measure because it seems to be underpinned by the stereotype that women can only talk about sex in deeply emotional terms. In Diary of a Submissive I have three major relationships, one of which is a love story of sorts, the other two of which are more sexual fun with like-minded and trusted partners than conventional romantic relationships. I’d argue that there are points where I’m very emotional – just not all the time. As in my real life, I’m quite happy being laid back about sex where possible. As for the ‘arse’ conundrum – it’s nothing more than a linguistic choice. I’ve always found euphemisms around sex really awkward. My arse is my arse. I’m not going to call it my ‘behind’ and I’m not going to talk about sex in terms of ‘down there’ or ‘lady parts’ or whatever. It’s a personal choice, but I don’t think I’m the only woman who feels that way (I hope I’m not!) – it’s certainly not a sign I’m a man!
2. It’s touched upon with James, but not fully explored. Men growing up with mothers and sisters who are strong and independent…how does a Dom reconcile hurting someone he loves? Can you give us an insight based on your own experience?
I think the key for this is the emotional context it sits within. Hurting someone in an erotic context, when it’s something they get off on isn’t abusive and doesn’t reflect a dislike of or wish to demean women. The dominant men I have met are for the most part respectful, polite and pro-equality in every other kind of context, it’s just in the bedroom they enjoy playing out the same power play elements I do. For me and the people I’ve played with those are the distinct boundaries – my boyfriend and I live together, make our decisions equally and have the kind of partnership you’d expect from any kind of long term relationship. It’s just (sometimes) in a sexual context this shifts – and we both enjoy it.
3. You mentioned you grew up with no corporal punishment. Do you think if you had, your first experience wouldn’t have been so shocking? Do you think you might still be attracted to the lifestyle if you had?
I don’t know it would have made any difference really. People have their kinks, and the fact that BDSM goes back so far historically suggests that even in the days of corporal punishment there was some kind of allure to D/s!
4. Some say there’s a difference between sexual fantasy portrayed in BDSM books and those in a real submissive sex life. Ultimately they say no one should live in a context of fantasy and yet think your lifestyle is just that. In their eyes they view it as an unhealthy attachment to fantasy since it’s an abusive lifestyle in practice. How do you respond to that?
My lifestyle isn’t abusive. That’s one of the major points I’m trying to make in my book. Some BDSM books are more fantastic – in the way that Mills and Boon books are, or sci-fi. But a major part of the reason I was inspired to write my book in the first place was to show you can work, have a social life, be sarcastic and silly and obsessed by Modern Family and still be into D/s without it all being sex contracts and red rooms of pain. People misconstruing D/s as abuse firstly do a grave disservice to victims of real domestic abuse, and secondly are judging me for choices it’s within my rights to make.
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Which author influenced your writing the most, and how do you prepare yourself to write an erotic love scene?
I don’t know that there is one single author who has most influenced my writing. As a kid I read almost constantly. I was one of those cliché kids that hides a flashlight under the pillow and reads until all hours of the night. Even at a very young age I gravitated toward adult novels and I read everything I could get my hands on. My biggest influences were probably writers such as Judy Blume and Erica Jong, who taught me that not only can women craft fabulous stories, but those stories could (and should) be free to discuss all aspects of the character’s lives, the good, the bad and the sexual. Other writers, like Anton Myrer and Erich Segal, made me realize that my favorite stories are those in which you learn so much about the characters you feel like you know them personally. And countless writers from novelists to poets taught me to write about love, in all its most wonderful and most painful moments.
As far as erotic love scenes go, I prepare myself for them the same way I prepare to write any scene. All of my stories play out in my head like movies. I watch them over and over, taking in the details and listening to the dialogue until I can transcribe the whole thing. Then I write. I try to make sure that I have put myself in the mind and body of every character so I know exactly what they’re thinking and feeling. It doesn’t matter if I’m describing a meal they’re having, a laugh with a friend, a flirtatious moment, or the steamiest of sex scenes. The method of writing is the same: be in the moment with the characters.
Do you have a daily writing goal or do you stick to an outline?
I don’t have daily writing goals (unless I’m working on some sort of deadline). There are some days where I practically write nonstop and others where I don’t write at all. If I’m in a good groove on a particular story it’s not unusual for me to churn out 3-4k words in a day. Other days I can’t put together a paragraph. On those days I know it’s best to do something other than write.
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